“Everyone is a bit scared.” Said the horse. “But we are less scared together.”
Charlie Mackey
Do Patti: Raanjhan
Having attended so many funerals from early age, I’ve seen many cold, lifeless bodies. Perhaps because of these experiences, I’m also of an opinion that we all need that one companion in our life — who’d stand by us. With us.
No question asked.
Effortlessly.
Willingly, and
Heartfully!
‘One’, … one is sufficient.
And, to be able to earn that one friend,
that one utterly special soul
is — in my honest opinion a matter of pure luck.
It is also an underestimated fortune.
At times also easily overlooked, easily missed.
This friend could be your parents,
your siblings,
your partner,
your best friend,
your son and daughter,
your grand parents,
your cousins, nephews, or someone once a complete stranger.
Do yourself a favor, let this person know that she or he is your person!
Learn to enjoy and appreciate the process… Because you are going to spend far more time on the actual journey than with those all too brief moments of triumph at the end.
Coach Christopher Sommer
Anuv Jain – JO TUM MERE HO
Tim ferris (who has been one of my many mentors since early 2015) writes:
An email from Coach Sommer I revisit often:
Hi Tim,
Patience. Far too soon to expect strength improvements. Strength improvements [for a movement like this] take a minimum of 6 weeks. Any perceived improvements prior to that are simply the result of improved synaptic facilitation. In plain English, the central nervous system simply became more efficient at that particular movement with practice. This is, however, not to be confused with actual strength gains.
Dealing with the temporary frustration of not making progress is an integral part of the path towards excellence. In fact, it is essential and something that every single elite athlete has had to learn to deal with. If the pursuit of excellence was easy, everyone would do it.
In fact, this impatience in dealing with frustration is the primary reason that most people fail to achieve their goals. Unreasonable expectations timewise, resulting in unnecessary frustration, due to a perceived feeling of failure. Achieving the extraordinary is not a linear process.
The secret is to show up, do the work, and go home.
A blue collar work ethic married to indomitable will. It is literally that simple. Nothing interferes. Nothing can sway you from your purpose. Once the decision is made, simply refuse to budge. Refuse to compromise.
And accept that quality long-term results require quality long-term focus. No emotion. No drama. No beating yourself up over small bumps in the road. Learn to enjoy and appreciate the process. This is especially important because you are going to spend far more time on the actual journey than with those all too brief moments of triumph at the end.
Certainly celebrate the moments of triumph when they occur. More importantly, learn from defeats when they happen. In fact, if you are not encountering defeat on a fairly regular basis, you are not trying hard enough. And absolutely refuse to accept less than your best.
Throw out a timeline. It will take what it takes.
If the commitment is to a long-term goal and not to a series of smaller intermediate goals, then only one decision needs to be made and adhered to. Clear, simple, straightforward. Much easier to maintain than having to make small decision after small decision to stay the course when dealing with each step along the way. This provides far too many opportunities to inadvertently drift from your chosen goal.
The single decision is one of the most powerful tools in the toolbox.
二兎を追う者は一兎をも得ず translates to — One who chases after two rabbits will not even catch one.
Japanese Academy
And Then You – Greg Laswell
7 Japanese Concepts I learned today:
IKIGAI: Discover your purpose in life. Find something that you love, what you’re good at, and what the world needs, this would lead you to a fulfilling life.
KAIZEN: Focus on small improvements each day rather than trying to do everything at once. This approach leads to lasting success overtime and motivates you to take the next step.
OMOIYARI: Be mindful. A concept of empathy and compassion, where you anticipate and care for others’ feelings and needs, fostering harmony and understanding.
HARA HACHI BU: Stop eating when you’re 80% full, rather than stuffing yourself with food. This mindful approach will increase your energy. This concept is rooted in the idea of balance and self control.
SHINRIN-YOKU: Literally “forest bathing”, emphasizes the therapeutic effects spending time in nature it encourages immersing oneself in the sights, sound and smell of the forest to reduce stress and improve well-being.
WABI-SABI: Appreciation of imperfection. It values simplicity and beauty of the natural cycle of growth and decay often accepting things as they are, rather than seeking to make them flawless.
SHOSHIN: Approach every task with a curiosity and openness of a beginner, as if it is your first time doing it, which encourages ongoing learning and growth without assumptions.
A guy in his early 60s pointing at the T-shirt I was wearing that time asked politely, “Do you know what the symbol is that you’re wearing?”.
Baffled. Surprised. I told him, “Oh! It’s buddha. Aaahh… they’re eyes of Buddha”. He went further to ask me, “May I know where you’re from?” to which I said, “I’m from Nepal (as we exchanged smiles).”
He added, “Oh! I went to Kathmandu (pronounced: Cat-man-do) one time and a guy told me that the nose in the shape of a question mark indeed entails — Question everything!”
I was like Wooowwholy Couu!!
Well, regardless of if it’s true or not.
The weight of the word does have a substance.
I remember returning home gratified thinking I learned something so powerful, and utterly useful that day!
