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In a world where real love is a lot of hard work where friction is inevitable. And true love still, is never a conflict-free love. Never take him .... Not, to take her... Yes, don't you make a mistake of taking your beloved for granted! p. s. Remember. The Balance Sheet of love also has Assets, Liabilities, Expenses, Overdrafts and Adjustments. Let's start from there.
Little things in relationships.
If you’re a vivid reader of this small blog; You must’ve come across many such posts that speaks of the must haves’ and the havenots’ — recipes for a ‘good-enough’ relationships.
I’m certain I’ve spoken enough, in imaginable length, breadth and the depth about the real.love.ingredients that make up for a real.love.relationships. A pure partnership per se or simply Friendship. The genuine Reciprocity. Loads and loads of Humor, for sure. The unadulterated Honesty. Radiating and re-assuring Emotional Security. Shared Responsibility. Non-judgementism, Appreciation and Acceptance. Non-negotiable Understanding and a strong, very strong Support System. The Non-negotiable Respect too. Heavy stuff like organic, mutual growth, best jokes. and so on and so forth.
But, Shit! Have I written anything about simple.little.things which actually, and in reality make up for a large portion of the ‘daily grind’ that any…. any well-nourished, balanced and well-maintained r.e.l.a.t.i.o.n.s.h.i.p.s — Go Through ->
Nope! Not that I recall.
[Sidenote: She asked me if I’d write on ‘little things’ after having binged Netflix series ‘Little Things‘ together.]
So, here I am. And, here it is.
Frankly, I don’t have 10 little, secret things you can do to pump up and launch your relationship to a sweet-next level, with your partner in crime, but sure I have some food for thoughts to share on the same.
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Cool.
So, allow me to present to you my flavor of ‘little things’ that we all can do.
- A simple wake up and wind down texts.
- Explore overlapping interests. May be food. Travel. Games. Pick anything. And do them. Freaking indulge,… responsibly though.
- Watch movies together. Eat ice-cream, drink coffee, enjoy your mint lemonade whatever you like. Go to concerts together. Cook together. Find out and solve problems together. Go, shopping together. Do weird, silly stunts together — merely for a bellyful of laughs and gasps. Doesn’t have to make sense! Share, listen to songs together. Dance together for no reason. Unpack your whole package together. … Don’t think dirty! [haha]
- Ask stupid questions. Ask, how was your day, How you feeling, questions? Take meaningless selfies. Make funny, stupid videos. Bitch about life’s unfairness and it’s suckers.
- Plus, an advice from my married-best-friend, “Take things lightly whenever you have disagreements and talk about it later with cool head”.
- Give each other sweet, little, frequent surprises. Take each other out for unplanned treat, retreats [emphasis added].
- Oh yeah! And please compliment. Compliment dudes.
- Kiss. Cuddle. Chumpy. Massage. Shower. Walk. Do Tik-toks if you have to.
- Encourage one another. Just Be.there.for.each.other — side-by-side, nail and flesh.
- Take inventories of each other’s favorite things as well as painful problems. Listen. Listen, and help each other out when things aren’t right.
- Make your significant other feel he/she is special and taken care of and taken care for.
Life’s good if little things are taken care of man. And I guess, rest will follow.
p.s. Enjoy One of those days for a secret to a perfect relationship.
p.p.s I’m also learning bits and pieces in this department.
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