Brave – Riley Pearce
A lesson from mum.
Mum patiently and frankly opens up, “Honestly son, I consider myself a very lucky person because your dad really stood out from all the horribles of men I’ve met, men I’ve heard of. See, the truth of the matter is, I have no idea why most men suck, why mosts are jerks, the moron kinds when it comes to sustaining and building relationships. If you think I am Biased? No. I don’t say girls and women aren’t disgraceful in this context but my experiences and from stories I have heard, mosts men hurt girls or women than the other way around.
But anyway, today and for tomorrow, please understand two principal facts dear son: women or girls at the bottom of their heart expects at least two things from their man.
First is care. She wants to feel desired, prioritized, understood, listened to — while profoundly being loved and heart-fully adored at par.
Second, safety. Emotional safety; although many make stupid trade-offs for a financial safety net. But then, only daring women or real, truthful girls rejoice in their utter independence. They merely ask of men to really show themselves up when in need. They merely ask of them to hang in there with them, for them and exchange hands through all their ups and downs.
Yes, us, and many like myself unconsciously, involuntarily look for men who are authentic, the ones who have an innate understanding of the emotional depth (meaning those who are emotionally resourceful), someone who’s a man of character, someone who knows who he is in his heart, someone who likes himself for who he is.
Lastly, in an ending note; like every other human being, like yourself and me, she deserves her share of freedom. She too yearns to be accepted and equally respected for who she is, how she is. Void judgments, minus baseless criticism.
There’s more to successful marriage and relationships than the bed and flesh…
Needless to ask but… fathomed? Sure?